Praying For Strength

It's been the toughest year I've gone through, by far. I sure didn't think that was possible after the past few years I've barely managed to get through. I suppose God is very much still around me, but sometimes it doesn't feel that way. I pray each and every night for strength and courage.

I know God hears me. I know he sends angels to watch over my family and I each and every day and night. He hasn't ever let me down, as far as safety is concerned. My family has always had food, clothing and shelter. To most, that is a blessing in itself. But is it so wrong to want more? I don't want all the money in the world... I don't expect Prince Charming... but it would be nice to have a little more phsycial family to lean upon. So here I go, praying for just that. Praying for a great big family to walk into my life...

Natalie grant held

Chris Tomlin - Our God is Greater

Catfish - Official Trailer [HD]

 


Catfish, a 2010 movie that came out late in September, from filmmakers Ariel Schulman and Henry Joost, who decide to document a story involving Ariel's brother, Nev, who is a 24-year-old New York-based photographer. The story also involves Abby, an 8-year-old girl from Michigan who contacts Nev through Facebook, asking for permission to paint a painting from one of his photographs.

How many of us chat on social networks, such as Facebook and Myspace, meeting new people each and everyday? Most of the people we manage to connect with are normally long lost friends from middle school, high school, college or just buddies from the good ol' days... but this movie goes a little more in depth of what can happen (and does happen quite often) when people can take the identity of anyone they want to. You see what you want to see, you see the pictures they post and allow you to see... but what if these people weren't really who they said they were?

I'm sure it's very, very common... and that's a bit creepy if you ask me! Just be careful what information you are putting out there for the world to see, some people get bored and there are stalkers out there that do pry on the vulnerable and innocent.

May God protect you all and keep you and your families safe...

A lovely air show.

There I am! I FINALLY got to the air show. :-) And the Thunderbirds did an awesome job!!! The day was just gorgeous with lovely weather, as well. What a perfect day for an air show!!!

There's the Dream Lifter airplane. What a giant!!! It carries other airplanes inside. How cool? :)

Oooooh! The Thunderbirds! :) The pilots were about to get on board.

Weeee! Lol. How amazing their stunts are. And scary! Haha.

Til Kingdom Come

Did anyone else notice that on last night's episode of One Tree Hill, Clay mentioned "Til Kingdom come..."?? I was like WOW that sounds like a familiar Bible verse. One Tree Hill has been a good show for me to watch with everything in my life that's been going on, it seems like everyone on the show is just so warm hearted and welcoming. It's like if you walked onto the set and it was real, you'd just fit right in.

"Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven." Matthew 6:10.  It also reminded me of Matthew 3:2, which states, "and saying, "Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near."

Hmmm. Well, I must say I did enjoy the episode. And I did have tears built up in my eyes when Clay was trying to convince Quinn she was going to be okay on earch without him there. Oh man.... to find a love that intense and that true... then to have to say goodbye? Oh, I sure do hope they don't get rid of Clay. I have really enjoyed that guy on the show, honestly. As do I enjoy Julian and Brooke, as well. Their relationship is more like the relationships I've known, rocky at first, but solid in the ending (okay well, the ending part maybe I haven't been so lucky to have yet, but my time will come for a happy ending). :)

Okay so... after watching a few shows here and there and feeling the cooler weather upon us, I can't help but to get a little excited about the fashiony jackets, furry hoodies, long scarves and warm boots season! :) And if you get a chance and the ADORABLE grey Bear Paw boots underneath this post, much cheaper than Uggs but still super cute and durable for winter. :)

Life Unexpected?

Ok yes, life is very unexpected... but there is a series on the CW with that title now. ;-) I have to admit I'm a fan of quiet a few shows... especially on the CW. Mainly because they all seem to have some type of good values, even though most of them never mention "praying" or  "God" too often. I never had time to watch Life Unexpected (I normally try to limit how many shows I get hooked on throughout a season!)... but I did manage to watch Life Unexpected's season premiere last week and was actually a little impressed.

Although I haven't memorized names off the show yet, it did seem like a wholesome good show that I definatly wouldn't mind my children being in the room with me while I was watching it. And well, I must not forget to mention since Shirli Appleby is starring in this tv series, I had to see what the fuss was about since I definatly have been a fan of hers since her hit show Roswell back in the day. Hahaha.

And not to mention...I hadn't been a huge fan of One Tree Hill once Lucas left the show (which I'm sure a lot of us gals were disappointed), but it's managed to stay at the top of my list for decent CW shows in the PG rated range.

SOOO yes, I do watch television here and there and like any good person, I can get a little attached to a few shows here and there... but I don't think it's wrong, as long as we always remember to put and keep God first. Like the good verse at the beginning of the New Testiment...

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
Matthew 6:33

So after all this talk about shows and whatnot, you sure don't want to have an unexpected ending... right?? If you don't know what direction your life is going, sit down, analyze it a bit and think to yourself... Am I putting God first, others second then my own needs and wants last?? I don't know about you, but I do know I want to end up in Heaven in the end... not that other fire bound, hot as you-know-what, burnt to a crisp place aka Hell... So please, please remember, believe in God and put him first in every decision you make. God is good. I have found out many times he will not forsake you if you trust in him. “Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.” Mark 16:16.

Hope you all have a blessed day... Keep praying... stay strong.

Life Unexpected Season 2 Trailer - More Unexpected

Spiritual Forces of Evil in the Heavenly Realms.

So Jason and Grant from the SyFy Channel's tv show, Ghost Hunters seem like great guys. I have nothing against them, I actually wouldn't mind meeting their TAPS crew sometime! Altough at times, as I watch their show (it does often amuse me), I had wondered why there would be "spirits" (especially of little children) left behind if the Bible said that this doesn't happen.

I realize that each and everyday it is a fight between good and evil, especially between forces we can not see. I'm reminded of a Bible verse from Ephesians 6:12, "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."

This also reminds me a bit of a movie that just came out called Legion. I've never seen the movie, although I know it has to do with good and evil forces fighting eachother over a piece of land. I remember reading a verse in the book of Mark when Jesus was walking the earth. He came across a man named who was posessed by many demons and they called themselves Legion.

Mark 5:1-13:

" 1They went across the lake to the region of the Gerasenes. 2When Jesus got out of the boat, a man with an evil^b spirit came from the tombs to meet him. 3This man lived in the tombs, and no one could bind him any more, not even with a chain. 4For he had often been chained hand and foot, but he tore the chains apart and broke the irons on his feet. No one was strong enough to subdue him. 5Night and day among the tombs and in the hills he would cry out and cut himself with stones.

6When he saw Jesus from a distance, he ran and fell on his knees in front of him. 7He shouted at the top of his voice, “What do you want with me, Jesus, Son of the Most High God? Swear to God that you won’t torture me!” 8For Jesus had said to him, “Come out of this man, you evil spirit!”

9Then Jesus asked him, “What is your name?”

“My name is Legion,” he replied, “for we are many.” 10And he begged Jesus again and again not to send them out of the area.

11A large herd of pigs was feeding on the nearby hillside. 12The demons begged Jesus, “Send us among the pigs; allow us to go into them.” 13He gave them permission, and the evil spirits came out and went into the pigs. The herd, about two thousand in number, rushed down the steep bank into the lake and were drowned."

So after reading up on a few things and also reading more of the Bible, I believe that there is no such thing as a "ghost", if it is implying it to be a dead person's spirit which stay behind on earth. I do, however, believe there are many demons which act as or impersonate dead people as a way of leading people away from the spiritual truth, trying to decieve us anyway they can. 


The devil is doing anything he can to try to get people not to believe in God. But I want him to know that he hasn't fooled me. I'm a child of Christ and I will remain this way til the end. My family will grow up knowing that Jesus Christ is their personal Lord and Savior and we will pray to him every single night.

So a small bit of advice? Keep reading your Bible. Surround yourself with positive people and pray to be forgiven of your sins. Remember with the spirit of Christ within you, no evil spirit can harm you. You may feel like you are walking through the valley of the shadow of death, but you shouldn't fear evil, for God is with you, his rod and staff will comfort you.

For This Battle is Not Yours, But God's.

My grandma called me last night to tell me of this verse in 2 Chronicles that she had just read and thought it kind of went along with what I was going through so maybe, just maybe it would make me feel a little better. She was right, it did help a little.

     ¹⁵ He said: "Listen, King Jehoshaphat and all who live in Judah and Jerusalem! This is what the LORD says to you: 'Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but God's. ¹⁶ Tomorrow march down against them. They will be climbing up by the Pass of Ziz, and you will find them at the end of the gorge in the Desert of Jeruel. ¹⁷ You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the LORD will give you, O Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the LORD will be with you.' " 2 Chronicles 20: 15-17.

These verses are very encouraging and just help to remind me that I am not alone in this battle I'm facing. I feel as though it's me against an entire army, but with God on my side I need to be assured this battle will not go on much longer and he already knows I'm doing the best I can to get through this. Sometimes it doesn't feel like he's near me, but I know he is there and has sent his angels many times to keep my family and I safe from harm.

The Lord Spared Our Homes

My mom took this photo of these storm clouds that were rotating near our place this evening... It looked like it was about to turn into a big tornado... ummm.. scary, huh?! Thank you God for keeping my family and I safe this evening!!!

The Lord is Answering Prayers, I Just Know It!!

I took this picture of my youngest daughter the other day with one of the bows I had made (which I list on etsy.com!). And when I see this picture of my baby girl, I just want to cry... tears of happiness and joy. She's precious. She's God's child. She's so innocent and vulnerable. I am here to take care of her... I'm so blessed that God trusted me to be 2 precious little girls' mother for this lifetime here on earth.

I want to hold her in my arms and protect her from everything around her (play the song by Plumb which I posted right before this post, it fits so well with this)... but i know someday she'll grow wings and want to fly away... and I have to prepare her for that day. I want her to know the world isn't always a nice place, but with God as our Heavenly father, she doesn't need to be afraid... because God wants us to remember something very important:

 "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me." Psalm 23:4. One of my favorite Bible verses that I'll probably end up over using on this blog, but that's quite alright. If one more posting of it can get one person closer to God, then one of  my goals have been met.

Do you ever wake up and just feel energized beyond the normal... and it feels like something good has just got to happen... Well, that's what it felt like this morning. Like I didn't want to keep my curtains shut any longer... let the light shine though...

It's sad when you've been through so much that you prepare youself for the worse in EVERY situation just so that you can protect your already broken heart... because that is what I've been doing more and more... but I also think it's God making me stronger... building my endurance (like a friend recently told me). I definatly believe that... endurance... strength... faith... wonderful things but rare to find all of these things in a person these days.

No one can bring you down... if you have faith... and if you carry joy in your heart provided by Jesus Christ. The people can throw stones, but they sure won't break your bones... atleast not emotionally. ;-)

In My Arms - Plumb

Sanctus Real - Whatever You're Doing Music Video

Etsy.com!

So I FINALLY started listing my Bows on Etsy.com! Yay :)

Check them out if you get a chance!!

9-11. 9 Years Later.

I was searching through a few news articles online about September 11 and also the controversy surrounding the burning of the Quran due to people not wanting to see a mosque built near ground zero. I came across this article. A man by the name of Rick said what I couldn't have said better myself! Thankyou Rick and to everyone who does believe in Jesus as their Lord and Savior, and can put their differences aside... because after all, isn't that what Jesus would do?

Rick states in response to the Florida pastor saying that his church will "not today, not ever" burn a Quran, even if a mosque is built near ground zero:

  "Praise the Lord that Pastor Terry Jones decided not to burn the Quran. Jesus teaches us to love all our neighbors. Our neighbors are all the people that God brings into our lives. One of the best examples of loving a neighbor was when the Good Samaritan cared for the Jew who had been beaten on the road to Jericho. The Samaritans and Jews hated each other, but out of compassion this Samaritan helped the man that God had brought into his life. I want all people, including all Muslims, to believe in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. They can only be won through the love of Jesus."

I also posted a Youtube video directly under this posting... and it has made me cry many times. Just the song... the images... the little girl saying she missed her daddy. So I do not see how anyone could not have a tear build up in their eyes or a ripped feeling in their heart after thinking about what happened to us on September 11, 2001. My heart still goes out to the families who lost loved ones in this terrible tragedy. I don't know exactly who planned these attacks, although the media wants us to believe a certain terrorist group was to blame. Honestly, only God knows the real truth and we just have to pray for justice in this world. We probably won't ever truly understand acts of hate like this, but we are told to pray for our enemies.

No matter what happened on that day, the point I want to make is that people did lose their lives.. innocent people. Sometimes tragedies bring people closer together and even closer to God. I pray, though, that it doesn't take any more tragedies for us to get close to the maker of heaven and earth, the Lord of us all.

I pray every day and every night for my family, friends and loved ones... that God protects them and keeps them safe throughout their daily lives in this selfish, cruel and messed up world. God Bless you all on this day and I hope you can take a minute to say a prayer for those who lost something on this day 9 years ago....

...and one more thing (a constant prayer of mine lately) is that God please bring my little girl safely home to me in my arms. I miss her dearly and want to give her a great big hug. It's been months since I've seen her and I don't think it's too much of a loving, caring mother to want to hold her baby girl in her arms again. God hasn't taken her away, it's just evil forces of this world and I know God's power is much stronger than those forces so my faith tells me my prayers will soon be answered. Faith is a wonderful thing! And peace will come someday... soon.

Heaven remix(w/ little girl who lost her daddy) 9-11 tribute

I AM - MARK SCHULTZ

BEAUTIFUL SONG!

I know that if Jesus walked on water he can carry me through any problem I will ever have. Thank you Lord for sending your son to die on the cross for our sins. Give me strength to carry on another day.

Reminder to Myself..

It's Friday... TGIF, right??? I have been busy trying to get my daughter to pose for pictures so I can show off some bows I've been working on. I feel a little sick to my stomach and realize I sort of forgot to each lunch! Oooops. That happens, especially when you try to keep your mind busy and distracted from reality. But I realize you can not put off reality for long (hence, my stomach is reminding me that!!!)

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12.

I have to repeat this verse over and over sometimes... because then I am reminded that the devil is trying to get us to fight with eachother. Through Christ, all things are possible and if he can move mountains, my problems are a piece of cake ;-) ...mmmm... that cake looks really good, too. Haha. Well, have a Blessed day! May you have a wonderful day filled with something that looks as yummy as this!

Here With Me - MercyMe

Casting Crowns - Slow Fade

Please keep my daughter in your prayers. I pray the Lord just wraps her in her arms until she can come back home and that she keep the good values that I've brought her up with.

An Air Show Coming Up... & Destination Truth! :-) :-)

I'm really excited about another air show coming up in a few weeks here in town! :) It always amazes me the stunts the pilots can do and then it also reminds me how great God is. Not sure the exact coralation I put between the two, BUT seeing objects defy gravity in the sky... I can't help but feel a sense of power and then I'm reminded how much power God has... obviously much more than I can even imagine.

So I'm also excited... my show Destination Truth starts with an all new episode today! Although this show doesn't exactly demonstrate much from a Christian standpoint, I just enjoy the break from reality and also the humor Joshua Gates brings to the audience on Destination Truth.

Watch if you'd like, or don't... but all in all  personally I'd the show a PG-13 rating... As long as you are around, if the kiddos happen to be present, they aren't going to see anything too terribly bad. After all, the shows air on the SyFy achannel and around 8pm!!! :) Well, almost finished with dinner so I can relax for a while... hope everyone has had a great day filled with many blessings. Take care!!! Remember- God is good... remember that.

I won't write much on Vampire Diaries since it's not exactly a Christian based show or even close, but Alayna does have some cute clothes on the show. Check these cute boutique skinny jeans. (skinny jeans have become my favorite so far) 

It's Almost Fall!!!!

I can't believe that September is already here. It seems that the closer to the end of the year that it becomes, the faster it goes... But oh how I love fall/autumn!!! It is normally not too hot but not too cold outside! Somewhat how I picture how paradise will be in Heaven...

I've been busy making a lot of Handmade Boutique Styled "Blinged out Jeweled" Newborn, Baby Girl and Toddler's Halloween/Fall Barrette and Headband Holy Bows!





I can take special orders for "special event" colors or even matching ones for "best friends", sisters or twins. Great for Fall pictures, School or Church events, Costumes, Gifts or just because! :) Take a look and remember I sell these bows so contact me if you'd like to order some! All proceeds go for a great cause (acquiring attorney bills and such). Very reasonable priced compared to a lot of boutique stores around! And remember- these bows are very unique and you probably won't see another one just like it around, if at all! I make my own , special designs from the heart.

Thanks for looking and God Bless!

Heaven Is The Face Of A Little Girl- Steven Curtis Chapman

Angelic & Darling! Princess Pink Bows

Above, One of my Favorite Bows So Far... I call it the "Princess Pink" Bow. It's a barrette hair bow... darling, I must say! Would look darling in any little girl's hair, for sure!!!

I tried this bow on after I made it and thought to myself, "that's definatly a "Minnie Mouse" Bow. Lol. Super cute and blinged out in Pink Jewels all around! Would be super cute with a costume, too!!!

I learned how to make these bows just by trial and error, but I linked a Kids Craft Book underneath if you want to try to give bows a try! Keep in mind, I sell these bows, too! I'm also working on a Halloween/Fall Collection of Black and Orange Bows!!!

Hope your Thursday is going great! God bless you!

Let Your Light Shine, Lord... My Wednesday Prayer.

Matthew 5:13 "You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. 14"You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. 15Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

My own take on the verse and my added in prayer for the day:


Lord, please let your light shine in my heart today. I know the times I'm going through are still not calm waters and clear skies, but with you by my side, I know I'm going to get through it! Be with my loved ones, even the one who is half way across the country. Lord, you know she is a child of God, that is how I raised both my girls. Please put strong faithful people in my path today, to help encourage my faith. But if I meet someone today who needs to know your word and needs you to enter their heart, please give me the words to share with them so that they can know you and begin to share your light in the darkness as well.

May you all have the chance to spread the Lord's Word and light in this dark, unbelieving world. God Bless You on this wonderful Wednesday.

MERCY ME - WORD OF GOD SPEAK - MUSIC VIDEO

So you're single... AND a Christian???

I feel like the more time that goes by, the more creative we have to be to get God's Word spread throughout the world. People can be difficult or stubborn sometimes, but that doesn't mean they won't listen. Even if they act like they don't care, just the fact that you might've told them who God is could eventually change their life. And the way I see it... if not, atleast you tried. It says in the Bible Jesus will not return til every living person on earth hears about him... I think that's reason enough if not to tell an army of people, atleast tell your neighbor!

I'm a younger gal and also a believever in God. Does that mean I have to be boring or not fun at all? Ofcourse not! I believe that God wants us to be fun, energetic and positive to be around. I like to laugh at jokes, listen to good music, meet new people and I'd love to eventually get to travel the world!


Not all of us have found "the one" we feel like God wants us to be with. That would most likely imply that you are a single Christian then, right? :-D It's okay! If it's God's Will, it will be done. Have patience and try to focus on God, then others... then yourself!


This site seems very legit and real to me. Many believes of God... so give it a try. :) Nothing is a guarantee, but you've got to have a little faith, correct? :)   http://www.christiancafe.com/

Also found this comical shirt at this website that made some funny shirts. Hahahaha. ;-)  Cute.

What do you think of when you think of God's Love??

No one thinks alike, for the most part... but that's what makes each of us special and unique. If we have God in our hearts, that is the best gift you can recieve. I try to read my Bible atleast once a day, to be encouraged and to learn God's word more and more.

People's perception today on "love" has so many variations... but when you think of "God's love" it's just so much more powerful. I often think how neat it would be if Jesus physically walked the earth this day and age... how wonderful he would be to encourage us when we felt discouraged or alone. I know my 2 daughters would just love to play with Jesus and have Him over for Bible stories and songs.

I pray daily, sometimes throughout the day. Right now, for example, I've been going through my own trial and tribulations and I've been asking for God to give me strength to get through this difficult times, quoting 2 of my favorite Bible verses often...

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4.

and...

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12.

These 2 Bible verses help me get through a lot... they remind me that God is always walking by my side, even when it's dark, gloomy and just plain evilness around me... and it almost reassures me that the people that try to cause me trouble in life are not worth getting upset over. Evilness tries to get you to turn your back on God, but I will not let the devil win. I am standing strong... standing my ground... like the song by Superchick, "Stand in the Rain". GREAT SONG!

Take care all, and may God Bless You! <3

Stand in the rain music video

City on Our Knees Dance (Original)

Super cute video Ifound on YouTube of children dancing to Toby Mac's "City on Our Knees"....

My Handmade Boutique Style Bows... aka Holy Bows

 

Although I'm almost certian Mary Magdalene didn't start making bows in her spare time, I'm sure she had experience in making clothing artles here and there.. and who knows, she might've even liked to have one of these pretty bows in her hair (although I do know she did wipse Jesus' feet with her hair, which is just simple marvelous). Anyhow, if she came up to me today and asked me for one, I would be more than honored to make her one (as I'd be honored to wipe Jesus' feet with my hair!)

I recently started making "Holy Bows". I list them on ebay but I also sell them off ebay. I make headband bows for babies or hairclip bows for toddler and younger girls. Either way, they're 'blinged' out for that extra, special, princess look!

 Let me know what you think! I also started putting a Bible verse in each of my Ebay listings just to spread the word of God even more so! <3

A Heart In The Clouds = God's Love

I took this picture with my camera phone a while back. I'm glad I still had it on my computer! I think it's just gorgeous... it reminds me of God's love for us. It's like a symbol we can recognize so easily.

Thank you God for sending your Son Jesus to die on the cross for our sins... thank you so much for forgiving each and every one of us if we just ask you to. That is just amazing!

God Bless You!

Sweetly Broken - The Passion of the Christ

Yes, I'm a Christian.... but I'm also a woman. :)

No, I'm not perfect. But who is? :) No one!

I learn each and every day more and more how to put my faith in God and leave my problems with him instead of worrying about them so much. This is not easy, however. But, when is doing the right thing always so easy??? Normally, it isn't.

But I wanted to share with you how recently in church a few Sundays ago, I started thinking of more ways I could share the word of God to others. I was blessed to grow up in a Christian enviroment, but I know not everyone has been so fortunate. I knew who God was when I was old enough to read, but that doesn't mean I've always made the best decisions.

I started to think... wow... I could "blog" about the tough choices I face each day as a Christian woman, but how God has helped keep me grounded and strong, throughout it all.

It wasn't til recently, and after talking to my pastor a few times, that instead of always asking WWJD? aka "What would Jesus do?" I started thinking to ask "What would Mary do?" By Mary, I am referring to Mary Magdalene. Not that I'm saying anyone should take the place of Jesus in our hearts, but as a Christian WOMAN, it's sometimes hard for me to see things from a "man's" standpoint. But ofcourse, right? I'm not a man! :) Besides, God did make man first... then women. I guess he was just saving the best for last. Haha. ;-)

I found this picture portaying someone's idea of an Adam and an Eve. Obviously none of us know exactly what they looked like or even how old they were to begin with... which is kind of interesting to think about for me. BUT I try not to get too boggled down with so many "what if" questions or else it leaves me to feel almost stranded and more confused than before.

Sometimes, when I'm at a store and a man is looking at me (in a way that makes me feel very uncomforable), I don't think that I'm not being Christianly by not making more than a quick smile and then heading in the opposite direction. However, if I'm outside and an elderly man or woman is putting groceries in their car alone, I would definatly offer help, if they wouldn't mind it.

Men and woman are made up so differently, I've noticed, that it's hard to sometimes "think" like a man, for me. I do know, however, that in the Bible it clearly states the roles of a man and a woman in a marriage.

"But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ. " 1 Cor 11:3. This verse is such a strong, clear passage. It helps you to see what a man/husband's role is not only mentally but almost visually as well.


"But if any man does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. " 1 Timothy 5:8 This directly points fingers at those men who practically abandon their families for some reason or another... sad to think there are men out there that would do this, but this is just another way of our selfish, self centered, "me, me, me" world.